why all people in this forum say they are ugly??
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I don't believe it, I would like to meet them and verify this thing...
anyway, if someone is beautiful inside, and his/her talking is smart and deep, it doesn't matter the aspect he/her shows outside: a lot of people became famous without being a model...
anyway, is the good-looking factor so relevant for your cause?? why are you looking for some handsome or at least pretty volunteers for spreading voices about the existence a new identity in human being, that is the asexual condition???
maybe you're worried that people you will meet during this work in which you "let people know asexuals are a lot of people, they are a reality, they must realize it" could comment your hard work with some superficial words like "ok, they are just some ugly people who cannot find a love mate and so are trying to idealize the impossibility of having sex with others saying they don't need to have sex in general..." and some stupid comments like that??
maybe you're right...but one person is what he/she is...it's sad having to choose someone only for his/her appearance for teaching others what a group of people who share a living condition thinks about social relations and life in general...in this way you fall in the same mistake of sexual people, who judge almost every person for his/her body attractive...but you're different: you don't judge a book from its cover (maybe, I'm the only one who thinks in this way...
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this is just a comment, I didn't mean to interfere with your work of recluting volunteers and writing pamphlets...(by the way, I've read the old one you've posted in the first post of this thread and it seemed to be interesting...maybe I would add more real-testimoniances...for example also from people abroad, just to let people from someone's own country know that it's not a short range phenomenon closed between their nation's boundaries)
I think
Bruno's story would be an example above all: he has a woman by his side, he has a good work and he doesn't have any sexual problems, nor social impairments...just only with these example you could shut up all the people who thinks that asexuals are: alone, social impaired, unkeen in making friends and loving relations, with sexual or physical problems like in the endocrine system and hormons...(I think someone between asexuals really fits this description, actually...but also between sexuals there are people with these problems...anyway it's not true that asexuality is caused by these factors...)
so...have a nice work and good luck!!
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